Welcome to The Grieving Heart
For Hope and Support After Loss
In Memory of My Parents
When you are sorrowful, look again in your heart,
and you shall see that in truth
you are weeping for that
which has been your delight.
Kahlil Gibran, The Prophet
I created The Grieving Heart® for anyone who has lost a loved one. Grief
is personal and no one experiences it the same way. I try to address difficult topics with compassion and honesty. Because
of my own loss, some of the material focuses on the death of parents. I also use the pronoun 'we' because it is a warmer way
to write. The only grief I know, however, is my own.
I have read that when parents die we lose the past, but when
children die we lose the future. I do not write about the death of children on this site because I do not have children. Please
visit the links below for grief support after the death of a child:
Despite the influence of the grief industry, your solace may not be in a book, at a support group, with a therapist, or on the Internet.
The popular stages, phases, steps, tasks and touchstones of grief and grieving are not right for everyone. Use them if they
help. Disregard them if they do not. Your heart will tell you what you need, or don't need, to grieve the death of your loved
one. Whatever works, works.
This is a big site and the information can be overwhelming at first, especially if your
grief is new. The easiest way to get acquainted with its contents is to begin on the next page: What will I find here?
Because we are all part of the human family, something here may ring true with you and help ease the way,
if only for a moment. Take what is yours to take from The Grieving Heart® and know that I wish you unexpected comfort
through all the seasons of your grief.
Peace to you,
|11th hour, 11th day, 11th month
|Armistice Day 1918
I read and respond to E-mail when I update
the site at the end of every month. If you need a more timely response, please visit a well moderated grief healing discussion group. It is free to use but requires registration to participate. I am not part of this group, but certified grief
counselors are there to help, support and comfort grievers and those who love them.
My web hosting company works hard to keep you safe
while you visit this site but there are no guarantees in the world of sophisticated cybercrime. I choose my outside links
with care, but I cannot ensure the safety of third party sites.
computer needs virus, spyware and malware protection. Purchase and install protective software on your computer
and update it on a regular basis. (Apple includes this automatically with its devices.) NEVER open attachments from senders
that you do not know.
I do not trust the Windows browser Explorer
11. My Windows 8.1 computer was corrupted with malware and had to be scrubbed. This was after Microsoft issued a
security patch to fix the Explorer 11 problems. I lost six years of creative work despite having the most up-to-date malware
and anti-virus software on my new computer. Everything was gone in a flash.
Firefox for safer, faster browsing. Free download. I do not profit from suggesting Firefox. I only want you to be safe
on the Internet and avoid what happened to me.
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How complicated and individual mending is, the time required for healing
cannot be measured against any fixed calendar. Mary Jane Moffat
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