It doesn't take much money to let someone know you care. Flowers, a simple card, a favorite CD/DVD, a
contribution to a charity in memory of the one who has died, a gift basket of tea, coffee, comfort goodies or fresh fruit,
or an invitation to lunch all say 'I am thinking of you' during this difficult time.
Stores such as Hallmark and
Things Remembered sell beautiful ornaments and other memorial items during the holiday season. It isn't the gift that matters
as much as the fact you remember your friend is hurting. With a little bit of effort, you can find an appropriate and meaningful
gift for your grieving friend.
I love receiving books as gifts and I have read every book listed on this web site.
They are not expensive and can be purchased online. I believe a grief book makes a thoughtful gift because, by giving it,
you are acknowledging your friend's loss and pain amidst the merrymaking of the season. Please go to Support After Loss and Holiday Grief Support for my recommendations and brief summaries.
My mother collected teddy bears. I received a grief bear after she
died and it was a great source of comfort to me when grief was new. Grief bears are not for everyone but they can make loving
gifts for someone in need of a hug.
three grief bear sites below offer a variety of styles and prices. I especially like the Memory Bears because you can
customize the product with your own theme, be it soldier, teacher, nurse, mother, father, child and so on. Flowers are always
a thoughtful way to show that you care. In Time of Sorrow.com and Sympathy Solutions.com provide gifts of lasting comfort.
Angel Catcher is a beautiful journal written by the mother of a murdered son. Add a fine writing pen or bookmark
for a special friend. The final site presents thoughts on the meaning of charitable gift giving in someone's name.
Memory Bears: Not your average grief bear
Good Grief Bears: Comfort for all ages
Vermont Teddy Bear: Sympathy and Mourning (Made in America)
Order flowers online any time of the year:
InTimeofSorrow.com: Meaningful Sympathy Gifts that Last
SympathySolutions.com: Unique Expressions of Comfort
Angel Catcher: A Journal of Loss and Remembrance by Kathy Eldon
In memory of...
NetworkforGood.org: Giving through charity
CharityNavigator.org: Check a charity's rating before you donate
Go to next page, December 26: Relearning the World