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Veteran Resources, Family Support and How to Help

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www.uso.org

Go to Resources for Women Veterans 

For Active Duty Soldiers and Veterans:

VA.gov is a huge web site. Use the site navigator to get started.

Learn how you can support our men and women in uniform through the good works of the United Service Organizations: Until Every One Comes Home®. Click here to send a message of thanks to our troops overseas.

Go to the Homefront page at ourmilitary.mil for more information on how to help soldiers serving overseas. (Many links to citizen support groups.)

From HHV.org: Help Hospitalized Veterans is a national, non-profit organization established for the purpose of distributing therapeutic arts and crafts kits, free of charge, to veterans receiving care at Department of Veterans Affairs medical centers, state nursing homes for veterans and military hospitals. HHV encourages volunteerism and pen-pal relationships with hospitalized veterans.

BoldBraveCourageous.com assists and supports wounded soldiers by offering comfort items to injured military personnel who have returned from Afghanistan and Iraq. It is a non-profit, all volunteer organization and donations are tax deductible.  From the home page: "We have not, and we will not forget what they have given on our behalf."

Air Compassion for Veterans.org provides free medically related flights to our wounded warriors and their families. Nearly 14,000 missions have flown since November 2006.

Veterans for America "ensures that the voices of those who have sacrificed immeasurably on behalf our country in recent years are heard and that support commensurate with their sacrifice is provided," including the National Guard. The VFA focuses specifically on the signature wounds of psychological traumas and traumatic brain injuries. You can donate money to provide returning veterans and their families with a Survival Guide. The guides are distributed in family assistance centers and hospitals. Your donation pays for the printing.

Iraq and Afghanistan Veterans of America (IAVA) supports a new generation of veterans. Established by veterans for veterans. Includes an online community for veterans only and The Transition Home for Families and Friends. The IAVA motto: We've Got Your Back. This site can also be reached by typing: www.communityofveterans.org.

From Helping a Hero.org: [We are] a 501(c)(3) non-profit, non-partisan organization that enables all Americans to say "Thank you for your service" to our wounded heroes in a tangible way. We build specially adapted homes for severely injured military personnel and their families and adapt these homes for the specific injuries and challenges of our wounded heroes...We place these homes in planned communities or master planned communities so they have neighbors who will support them in their recovery. We also partner our home recipients with a service club like Rotary who will nurture this hero and work with the family as they rebuild their lives...To view the recipients of adapted homes, click Changing lives, one veteran at a time.  

The Paralyzed Veterans of America, a congressionally chartered veterans service organization founded in 1946, has developed a unique expertise on a wide variety of issues involving the special needs of its members—veterans of the armed forces who have experienced spinal cord injury or dysfunction. You can securely donate to the Give Back to Veterans Fund or send an eCard to a paralyzed vet.  

The mission of the National Coalition for Homeless Veterans is to end homelessness among veterans by shaping public policy, promoting collaboration and building the capacity of service providers. Includes contact information for specialized programs assisting women veterans and how you can help homeless vets.

Goodwill Industries provides services to veterans from all periods of combat. Services include transitional housing, family strengthening, job training and employment. In 2009, nine independent Goodwill agencies across America were able to expand their job training and employment services to homeless veterans because of a series of grants from the US Department of Labor. Learn more about Goodwill's commitment to serving veterans by reading its report Veterans Employment Services: A Review of Effective Practices. (PDF File, Requires the free Adobe® Reader)

HomelessVetsProject.org: Helping homeless veterans reclaim their lives. From the front page of the site: "We do not leave wounded soldiers to die on battlefields alone. We don't leave them to die under bridges, either."


From the VA.gov
: A variety of services for homeless veterans including prevention, treatment, housing support and job training.

 



For Military Families:

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From the Mission page of USACares.org: USA Cares provides financial and advocacy assistance to post 9/11 active duty US military service personnel, veterans and their families...We never charge fees nor accepts repayment and rely on donations from private citizens, businesses and foundations for all funding. Our goal is to help restore financial stability and self-sufficiency by giving "a hand up not a hand out." We strive to reach families at the earliest stage of intervention to prevent further financial distress and suffering, especially for the combat injured and their families.

Coaching into Care: Launched by the VA, it is a national phone service that links veterans and their families to services and benefits in their own communities.

www.militaryfamily.org: By military families for military families, the National Military Family Association advocates for benefits and programs that strengthen and protect uniformed services families and reflect the Nation’s respect for their service. You can also order a free talk kit designed specifically for military parents of tweens and teens. Published by TimetoTalk.org, this kit provides ideas on how to start the conversation about drugs and alcohol, scripts to help you find the right words, tips for answering tough questions, suggestions for making transitions easier on your kids and getting support from other adults around you.

Our Military Kids helps families who often fall outside the parameters of established support programs--the families of National Guard and Reserve service men and women who have been and are continuing to sacrifice so much for our country. For children with a deployed or injured parent. Click here to support the kids. Your contribution or fundraiser provides comfort, routine, stability and fun one child at a time. 

The Freedom Alliance Scholarship Fund honors the bravery and dedication exhibited by Americans in our Armed Forces who have sacrificed life or limb defending our country by providing educational scholarships to their children. Click here to support the scholarship fund. It is a secure site.

Special Operations Warrior Foundation provides college educations to surviving children of fallen Army, Navy, Air Force and Marine Corps special operations personnel who lose their lives in combat or training. It also provides immediate financial assistance for special operations personnel severely wounded in action. There are many ways to give to this four-star charity.

The Department of Veterans Affairs offers the Readjustment Counseling Service to returning soldiers and their families who want assistance in adapting to life after fighting overseas. The site provides soldiers with information on eligibility and how to contact Vet Centers where counseling is available. It also offers information about Bereavement Counseling for families of soldiers who died serving their country.

From Real Warriors.net: How to help military children grieve the death of a fallen parent. Includes many links for information and support.  

Marine Corps Law Enforcement Foundation: Provides scholarships for the children of parents killed in action while serving in the military or law enforcement. Its mission is to encourage the spiritual, moral, intellectual and physical development of children through education. This Foundation was formed in February of 1995 by former Marines and law enforcement personnel who strongly believe that our nation's most precious resource is its youth. Certified as one of America's best charities.

The Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors, or TAPS, offers comfort and unique resources for military families left behind when their loved ones are killed in the line of duty. Includes an online community and photo gallery. "Remember the love, celebrate the life, share the journey." Click www.taps.org for details. Thank you.


Veteran Employment After Service:

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VA Vet Success Program

GI Jobs: Top 100 Military Friendly Employers

Sodexo Career Page for Veterans

O*net Military Crosswalk Tool


Music and Musical Tributes:

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On a lighter note, Operation Happy Note is a volunteer effort to send musical instruments to deployed service men and women throughout the world. Click here to give the gift of music.

If music is healing to you, please turn on your speakers and visit the web site of Susan D. Wiseman. Her mission is to share her gift of song with others. In 2005, her original work It Is The Soldier was awarded the Military Writers Society of America CD/Album of the Year. Click here to listen to more of her recordings. Some of the moving pieces feature her husband Larry S. Wiseman, an accomplished trumpeter. Mr. Wiseman is a member of Bugles Across America and performs Taps at the gravesides of fallen heroes (KIA) and veterans of the US Armed Forces. They are the parents of SPC David Dale Wiseman who was wounded in Iraq from an IED explosion. (2007)


 


Additional sites that address loss, hope and support appear below. For a comprehensive listing of resources, go to the NationalResourceDirectory.gov: An online partnership for wounded, ill and injured service members, veterans, their families and those who support them. You can make a difference in the lives of soldiers because the Military Appreciation page links to many civilian organizations that succeed only because of the time and talent of volunteers.



A few facts about women veterans...

• More than 212,000 female service members have been deployed to Iraq and Afghanistan.

• Women make up 15 percent of the current active, Guard and reserve forces.

• There are 1.8 million women among the 23.4 million living veterans.

• Women are second only to elderly veterans as the fastest growing group of living veterans.

• The number of women using the VA health care system is expected to double in the next five years.

• About one in five women who seek treatment from the VA report that they have experienced sexual trauma while in the military.

• According to the Veterans Administration, there are an estimated 6,500 homeless female vets on any given night, yet less than five percent of the homeless shelters run by the Veterans Affairs Department offer women separate housing from men. 

• The incidence of homelessness among women veterans has doubled in the last decade.

• Half of all homeless women veterans are under the age of 35.

Fact Sources: Department of Veterans Affairs and ArmyTimes.com


Resources for Women Veterans:

Women Veterans Health Care: You served, you deserve the best care anywhere.

LadyVets.org: Women Veterans Assistance

Iraq and Afghanistan Veterans of America: Support better health care for women veterans

National Coalition for Homeless Veterans: Help for homeless women veterans

GraceAfterFire.org: A place for women veterans and their loved ones

Center for Women Veterans: A forum and many resources

ArmyTimes.com: Bills to improve benefits for women vets

Business and Professional Women's Foundation: Public policy focus for women veterans


 

 
 More Links: Loss, Hope and Support


National Suicide Prevention Lifeline for Veterans 

Veterans Suicide Prevention Hotline: 1-800-273-TALK, (8255) Veterans Press 1

Grief Healing: A Comprehensive Grief Resource by Marty Tousley, RN

APA Help Center: Terrorism and Natural Disasters

RealWarriors.net: Because some wounds are invisible. For service members, veterans and families.

BuildingHomesforHeroes.org: Helping our severely wounded and disabled veterans rebuild their lives

Fisher House.org: Support for Our Wounded Troops

Mom 4R Marines.org: Supporting Marines, Sailors and Their Families

Operation Gratitude: Care Packages for Troops in Hostile Regions and at Sea

Operation Shoe Box: Helping Soldiers Overseas

Operation Worship: Providing Bibles for Our Troops

SoldiersAngels.org: May No Soldier Go Unloved

Standing for Our Soldiers: Care Packages for the Troops

Troopathon.org: Remember Their Sacrifice. Care Packages for the Troops

Wounded Warrior Project: Outreach, Work, Coping, Advocacy

Injured Marine Semper Fi Fund: Provides financial support for injured and critically ill Marines and their families

Yellow Ribbon Fund: A private, non-profit organization providing volunteer services to injured service members and their families

Welcome Back Veterans.org: Provides PTSD treatment to veterans and support for families. Sponsored by MLB.com

The Thank You Foundation: Showing gratitude for our US Armed Forces past and present (Cincinnati/TriState Area)

For an extended list of veteran-related links, please visit Our Veterans: Support, Honor, Remember


USFlag.org: Learn US Flag Etiquette

Click USA.gov to contact your elected officials.

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Recommended Book:

Courage After Fire: Coping Strategies for Troops Returning from Iraq and Afghanistan and Their Families, by Keith Armstrong, et. al., with a Foreword by Sen. Bob Dole, A WW II veteran and wounded soldier. Ulysses Press, 2005. 239 pages, $10.17.

Product Description: The bravery displayed by our soldiers at war is commonly recognized. However, often forgotten is the courage required by veterans when they return home and suddenly face reintegration into their families, workplaces, and communities. Authored by three mental health professionals with many years of experience counseling veterans, Courage After Fire provides strategies and techniques for this challenging journey home.

Courage After Fire offers soldiers and their families a comprehensive guide to dealing with the all-too-common repercussions of combat duty, including post-traumatic stress symptoms, anxiety, depression, and substance abuse. It details state-of-the-art treatments for these difficulties and outlines specific ways to improve couple and family relationships. Courage After Fire also offers tips on areas such as rejoining the workforce and reconnecting with children. Consistently gets good reader reviews.

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The fiery trials through which we pass will light us down in honor or dishonor to the last generation.
Abraham Lincoln, Dec. 1, 1862

 

In Honor of Our Veterans
www.honorflight.org
Honor Flight transports senior veterans to visit and reflect on their memorials in Washington DC.
Rebuilding lives. Restoring hope.
www.saluteheroes.org
Helping Disabled Am. Veterans of the War on Terror

 
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February 2012

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